He’s got style, he’s got swagger, he’s got game…so?

Meet our man of the hour…Scott Disick, Kourtney Kardashian’s baby daddy.  Wtf is wrong with him???

He is good looking, comes from well-to-do parents, is a business owner himself (he just opened a new restaurant in NYC), has no problem getting any girl he wants, has money, has two parents who are still married…what gives?

His damn baby mama, Kourtney Kardashian only has sex with him (once a year) to pop out another kid to play with her existing kid.

On her latest rant, she feels that Scott doesn’t do enough around the house…so, he must do some chores, like turning off the lights or turning on the alarm, to collect enough points, 10, to earn sex.


Here is the clip that didn’t make it to the show…see what you think.

This is definitely getting buzz with the ladies who think this is the best thing since sliced bread.  While it is true that most men are lazy when they are at home, heck it’s probably because they bust their tail all day at work so they can provide for her and the children.

From her end, she’s one of the biggest control freaks I can think of.  How she got all this status, I gotta tell you, my jaw drops in amazement.  For some woman to have that much control over a guy, girl, you gotta teach me YOUR tricks.  Wow.

I think she definitely is the least attractive of all the Kardashians.  Ya, she might jointly run their clothing store Dash, with her two other sisters, I think she has no discernible talent.  Every time I hear that droning voice I wanna stick the most expensive Bose noise-cancelling headphones I can buy to drown her out.  She works out and got back in shape after the baby.  So what?  Most Hollywood actresses have the same destiny if they wanna continue to stay in the spotlight.

What decade are we in that women have to withhold sex to get something in return?  She’s not needy or financially challenged.  Dump him and find someone else.  I guess her antics are so out-there that this drama is good for ratings.  What I fear is that lots of women observe her behavior and then condone it as their own.

What disgusts me is that Scott doesn’t need to do any chores.  They can well afford a live-in maid.  “Turn the lights out?”  Put the lights on a damn timer.  They are about $8 at the hardware store.  “Turn the alarm on?”  Most new alarm systems are digital.  Pull out the manual and figure out how to program the unit to go on and off at given times.

He’s not a shy, little dweeb that will never get a hot chick.  He’s Scott Disick.  He is the definition of A**hole, the kind that most women love and crave.  As for ‘what’s in it for him’?  I don’t know.  All I can think of is that he will forego his most beloved sex for fame.  Is the Kardashian train worth some sacrifices?  Sure.  About a year’s worth, I’d say.  He’s had his run.  He’s got his name in print…now leverage that and move on.  No Kardashian pussy is worth losing your manhood over…and that includes mom, Kris…ugh…that’s another blog (Olympic Gold Medal winner in the Decathalon, racking up an astounding 8,618 points, Bruce Jenner) for another day.  I’m choking on my Wheaties as I speak…

How 90 days affects a Man.

From my radio appearance on Reality Radio (click)my listener below hears me talk about the following subject…


Ce Katz The 90-day rule applied for me. No sex until 90 days.  It builds a better foundation and strength towards a committed relationship. And yes, doors SHOULD BE OPENED! Chivalry is dead!  Big dislike!


DT:  The 90-day rule?  Yes.  A very good plan.  Did you know that 90 days has significance in a man’s body

Back in the day (before the advent of the birth control pill in the 70’s), our dads and grandpas “courted” their women. 

If a woman hops into the sack too soon, it dumps a hormone, Oxytocin, that bonds this woman to this man (even IF he is no good for her).  We waste a lot of time and emotion on a guy who may not deserve that attention, not to mention it lowers our self-esteem to be with such a guy. 

Under usual circumstances, men’s bodies dump testosterone in their system.  Testosterone is the anti-hormone of Oxytocin.  Yikes!  Who invented that!  Anyway, when a man delays sex for 90 days, like in our dad’s day, the Oxytocin level, the bonding hormone, is finally at a saturation point that it outweighs the cancelling affect that Testosterone has.  In plain terms, it means that HIS Oxytocin level is at a significant level for him to bond to her.

How special is that?  I love Mother Nature.  It’s just so exciting to me to marvel how the human body works.

The trick today is that young girls don’t know how to keep a guy interested without resorting to sex.  It is a challenge, to be sure.  Sexual hormones are super strong for a reason…nature wants you to recreate!

One of my readers said she purposefully chooses dates that are long distance (she’s a church woman) because she hasn’t been able to keep her legs closed and the distance gives her a safety net to get to know him without the sex.  To that I say “horseshit”.  Practically every guy is gonna want in (and if he doesn’t, you probably will think he’s gay or not manly enough).  It’s not his fault he wants sex.  He is biologically wired to act that way.  Women are the gatekeepers.    Always have been, always will be.

If you can’t figure out how to be a woman without sex, that’s your own damn fault.  You deserve the heartaches that come your way until you figure this out.  There are 50-year old women who still haven’t ‘got’ it.  It’s your choice.  You can learn to be an alluring female…or not.

  • They used to tell girls to not shave their legs as any (white) girl would be embarrassed to have sex with stubbly legs or to wear grandma (non-sexy) underwear or ones that have a hole in it (again, the big time embarrassment factor deters sex).
  • Aside from that, after the first three dates (almost any girl can last 3 dates), keep the dates short, like an hour or less (to avoid temptation).
  • Schedule dates in the daytime (less risky when you’re awake and sober).
  • Schedule an activity.  It’s easier to keep your mind off sex if the date is NOT spontaneous and random.  No planning leads to our animal hormones kick in luring you to sex.
  • Schedule group dates, safety in numbers.
  • A giant plus for a woman is to Be Interesting even without sex.  That is the best catnip to get a man to really fall in love with you.  To do this means you have to start reading, being active, and having interests.  No…shopping or watching Jerry Springer doesn’t count.  When he actually wants to hang around you, you’re on the right track.He will respect that you are delaying sex.  Another bonus is that it tells him that you can delay gratification.  If you can do that with him, he will conclude that you will put off other men who approach you thereby keeping you faithful to him.  Your fidelity is super-important to a guy.
  • And for goodness sake, DON’T GO TO HIS APARTMENT until you Know you wanna have sex. 

Bottom line?  He wants to know what kind of person you are.  The woman sets the tone.  If you’re a long-haul girl, he will step up to the plate and be that long-haul guy.  That’s how it works.

If he cannot be a long-haul guy this minute due to school, career, or a life event, even the skankiest player will be a gentleman to say he can no longer date you as he is not in that mode right now.  He will bow out of your life and find more suitable prey.

The weak ones let hormones control and overtake her…often with unsatisfactory results.   The smart woman wins.  And, there’s nothing sexier than a confident woman.  Have a  day.