He’s got style, he’s got swagger, he’s got game…so?

Meet our man of the hour…Scott Disick, Kourtney Kardashian’s baby daddy.  Wtf is wrong with him???

He is good looking, comes from well-to-do parents, is a business owner himself (he just opened a new restaurant in NYC), has no problem getting any girl he wants, has money, has two parents who are still married…what gives?

His damn baby mama, Kourtney Kardashian only has sex with him (once a year) to pop out another kid to play with her existing kid.

On her latest rant, she feels that Scott doesn’t do enough around the house…so, he must do some chores, like turning off the lights or turning on the alarm, to collect enough points, 10, to earn sex.


Here is the clip that didn’t make it to the show…see what you think.

This is definitely getting buzz with the ladies who think this is the best thing since sliced bread.  While it is true that most men are lazy when they are at home, heck it’s probably because they bust their tail all day at work so they can provide for her and the children.

From her end, she’s one of the biggest control freaks I can think of.  How she got all this status, I gotta tell you, my jaw drops in amazement.  For some woman to have that much control over a guy, girl, you gotta teach me YOUR tricks.  Wow.

I think she definitely is the least attractive of all the Kardashians.  Ya, she might jointly run their clothing store Dash, with her two other sisters, I think she has no discernible talent.  Every time I hear that droning voice I wanna stick the most expensive Bose noise-cancelling headphones I can buy to drown her out.  She works out and got back in shape after the baby.  So what?  Most Hollywood actresses have the same destiny if they wanna continue to stay in the spotlight.

What decade are we in that women have to withhold sex to get something in return?  She’s not needy or financially challenged.  Dump him and find someone else.  I guess her antics are so out-there that this drama is good for ratings.  What I fear is that lots of women observe her behavior and then condone it as their own.

What disgusts me is that Scott doesn’t need to do any chores.  They can well afford a live-in maid.  “Turn the lights out?”  Put the lights on a damn timer.  They are about $8 at the hardware store.  “Turn the alarm on?”  Most new alarm systems are digital.  Pull out the manual and figure out how to program the unit to go on and off at given times.

He’s not a shy, little dweeb that will never get a hot chick.  He’s Scott Disick.  He is the definition of A**hole, the kind that most women love and crave.  As for ‘what’s in it for him’?  I don’t know.  All I can think of is that he will forego his most beloved sex for fame.  Is the Kardashian train worth some sacrifices?  Sure.  About a year’s worth, I’d say.  He’s had his run.  He’s got his name in print…now leverage that and move on.  No Kardashian pussy is worth losing your manhood over…and that includes mom, Kris…ugh…that’s another blog (Olympic Gold Medal winner in the Decathalon, racking up an astounding 8,618 points, Bruce Jenner) for another day.  I’m choking on my Wheaties as I speak…

How 90 days affects a Man.

From my radio appearance on Reality Radio (click)my listener below hears me talk about the following subject…


Ce Katz The 90-day rule applied for me. No sex until 90 days.  It builds a better foundation and strength towards a committed relationship. And yes, doors SHOULD BE OPENED! Chivalry is dead!  Big dislike!


DT:  The 90-day rule?  Yes.  A very good plan.  Did you know that 90 days has significance in a man’s body

Back in the day (before the advent of the birth control pill in the 70’s), our dads and grandpas “courted” their women. 

If a woman hops into the sack too soon, it dumps a hormone, Oxytocin, that bonds this woman to this man (even IF he is no good for her).  We waste a lot of time and emotion on a guy who may not deserve that attention, not to mention it lowers our self-esteem to be with such a guy. 

Under usual circumstances, men’s bodies dump testosterone in their system.  Testosterone is the anti-hormone of Oxytocin.  Yikes!  Who invented that!  Anyway, when a man delays sex for 90 days, like in our dad’s day, the Oxytocin level, the bonding hormone, is finally at a saturation point that it outweighs the cancelling affect that Testosterone has.  In plain terms, it means that HIS Oxytocin level is at a significant level for him to bond to her.

How special is that?  I love Mother Nature.  It’s just so exciting to me to marvel how the human body works.

The trick today is that young girls don’t know how to keep a guy interested without resorting to sex.  It is a challenge, to be sure.  Sexual hormones are super strong for a reason…nature wants you to recreate!

One of my readers said she purposefully chooses dates that are long distance (she’s a church woman) because she hasn’t been able to keep her legs closed and the distance gives her a safety net to get to know him without the sex.  To that I say “horseshit”.  Practically every guy is gonna want in (and if he doesn’t, you probably will think he’s gay or not manly enough).  It’s not his fault he wants sex.  He is biologically wired to act that way.  Women are the gatekeepers.    Always have been, always will be.

If you can’t figure out how to be a woman without sex, that’s your own damn fault.  You deserve the heartaches that come your way until you figure this out.  There are 50-year old women who still haven’t ‘got’ it.  It’s your choice.  You can learn to be an alluring female…or not.

  • They used to tell girls to not shave their legs as any (white) girl would be embarrassed to have sex with stubbly legs or to wear grandma (non-sexy) underwear or ones that have a hole in it (again, the big time embarrassment factor deters sex).
  • Aside from that, after the first three dates (almost any girl can last 3 dates), keep the dates short, like an hour or less (to avoid temptation).
  • Schedule dates in the daytime (less risky when you’re awake and sober).
  • Schedule an activity.  It’s easier to keep your mind off sex if the date is NOT spontaneous and random.  No planning leads to our animal hormones kick in luring you to sex.
  • Schedule group dates, safety in numbers.
  • A giant plus for a woman is to Be Interesting even without sex.  That is the best catnip to get a man to really fall in love with you.  To do this means you have to start reading, being active, and having interests.  No…shopping or watching Jerry Springer doesn’t count.  When he actually wants to hang around you, you’re on the right track.He will respect that you are delaying sex.  Another bonus is that it tells him that you can delay gratification.  If you can do that with him, he will conclude that you will put off other men who approach you thereby keeping you faithful to him.  Your fidelity is super-important to a guy.
  • And for goodness sake, DON’T GO TO HIS APARTMENT until you Know you wanna have sex. 

Bottom line?  He wants to know what kind of person you are.  The woman sets the tone.  If you’re a long-haul girl, he will step up to the plate and be that long-haul guy.  That’s how it works.

If he cannot be a long-haul guy this minute due to school, career, or a life event, even the skankiest player will be a gentleman to say he can no longer date you as he is not in that mode right now.  He will bow out of your life and find more suitable prey.

The weak ones let hormones control and overtake her…often with unsatisfactory results.   The smart woman wins.  And, there’s nothing sexier than a confident woman.  Have a  day.

DT Talks. Facebook Sets Historic IPO.

“Zuckerberg’s thinking said he has long been fearful of the damage an IPO could do to the company’s culture. He wants employees focused on making great products, not the stock price, they said.  Facebook Sets Historic IPO.

Mr. Zuckerberg’s thinking began changing when Facebook realized in 2010 that it would have more than 500 shareholders by the end of 2011, which would trigger a regulatory requirement that the company start publicly reporting financials. Mr. Zuckerberg decided it made more sense for Facebook to go public and reap some financial benefit from an IPO.”

He is 27 years old and worth 17 BILLION dollars.  After the IPO, he will be worth 28 BILLION.  Really? 

When someone makes the $5 Million Dollar mark, I bet they feel like the shit.  A short time later, it’s on, and they think, “If I can make 5 million, why not 50?”  Ok.  I get that.  50 million seems like a comfortable number.  There is a lot you can buy/do with 50 Million Dollars.  That being said, there is a world of difference between 50 million dollars and 28 BILLION.  The number gets so large that it’s ridiculous.  You’re not even in touch with the number anymore (if you don’t start to give back to the world).  You might as well say “Pass the Salt” or “Have a Nice Day” because like those phrases, it just has no value.

Let’s stroll down memory lane, shall we?  Bill Gates, who wanted to “put a computer on each and every desk”, which he did, just didn’t fall off the pick-up truck and become altruistic (The Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation) and decide to help the poor and needy in Africa.  Hell no.  He was forced to.

For 20 long, hard years, the government tried to nail him on being a monopoly.  Gates ran his affiliates and competitors out of town using monopolistic (and clearly against the law) tactics.  Gates didn’t step down from running the company because he wanted to.  No.  He had to step down.  The government finally won their case.

But, Gates still got the last laugh.  In the government’s inability to deliver justice, ruled that Gates should diversify his company and break it up into smaller companies because it was just “too big”.  The net effect to Gates was that he made even MORE MONEY than he thought imaginable by this so-called penalty.

  • Note to my readers:  I am diverging from my usual dating/relationship talks to discuss politics/business today because I think it’s important.  One in an occasional series…

These guys don’t become the richest men on earth for no apparent reason.  It takes a team of government lawyers to finally put them out to pasture.  With Gates, it took 20 years.  With the tobacco industry, it took 50 years.  If you don’t know that story, go rent The Insider which does a phenomenal job at explaining history.  Basically, the attorney who won the case against the tobacco companies was victorious because he said the cigarette is a “transportation device” for drugs and had nothing to do with tobacco.  Tobacco is a natural product.  Tobacco doesn’t produce cancer.  It’s the 200 or so chemicals that the tobacco companies put IN the cigarette that are carcinogenic.

Why would they purposefully create and promote cancer?  Because cancer is BIG BUSINESS.  The doctors, the drug companies, the hospitals, the labs, the “research teams”…everyone makes a TON OF MONEY!!!

Oh, and to piss you off even further…guess who Gates hired to defend him during those 20 years?  Yup.  That famous attorney who won the case against the tobacco companies.  Gates is no dummy. 

So, fast forward to now.  For 20 years, they breathed down Gates’ throat for creating and continuing a monopoly.  Even though Zuckerberg is not accused of that, the government is breathing down his throat every minute for breaking Privacy Laws.  Zuckerberg knows everything about us.  Where we live, who our friends and family are, where we went to school, how and where we shop, and on and on.  He is selling that private information, without our permission, to advertisers who target-market us.  That’s how he made his 17 million.

So, what exactly is completing an IPO gonna do for Zuckerberg?  He says he is worried that he will have to publicly disclose his company’s earnings.  His company is currently almost at the legal limit of shareholders where it is required to make these numbers public.  To his fear I say “So what?”  Everyone already seems to know how much Zuckerberg is worth.  Everyone already seems to know how much Zuckerberg’s company is worth. 

He says that by making the company public, he “decided it made more sense for Facebook to go public and reap some financial benefit from an IPO”.  Really?  So, you go from 28 Billion to 128 Billion…and then?  When is too much too much?

I guess what I’m trying to ask is when is money, power, and fame…enough?

I’m not trying to hate on Zuckerberg as he is not the only one on board this ship.  There are a few dozen more men just like him:  the drug companies, tobacco, fast food chains, telecommunications giants, arms dealers, the oil companies, financial institutions…to name a few.

Chasing money, power, and fame is a habit…one that is fueled by a pure adrenaline rush.  It’s just as effective as taking a drug for real and equally addictive.

The question I’ve been asking myself for a few years is what would make these men stop and forfeit money, power, and fame?  In my opinion, you cannot drop a habit unless you replace it with another (hopefully a more positive) habit.  Gates got shipped off to business-Siberia (his charity in Africa, and only because he was forced to).  What about the other handful of jokers?  What would it take for them?

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4G is 4U, UC?

I keep seeing these new cell phone ads that have video chat.  I don’t get it.  Since the invention of texting, voice usage is WAY down.  Guys just don’t like to talk, so who exactly did they invent this for?

According to mobile marketing survey companies, text messages are sent and received at a 75% higher rate than voice calls.


  • It’s impersonal.  (Phone calling for men is usually reserved for someone they really care about.)
  • Men get to keep their distance.
  • Control.  The man gets to control the conversation.  He answers WHEN he wants to. Women are usually better verbally, type faster, often talk about 2 and 3 subjects at the same time (guys like to talk only about one thing at a time) and frankly, men can’t keep up.  All this makes the usual guy very nervous and left feeling out-of-control, a feeling that must be avoided at all costs.
  • Editing.  On a phone call, it’s pretty easy for a guy to stick his foot in his mouth and usually, there is no turning back.  With texting, he can look over what he wrote several times, edit it, spell check it, and THEN send it.  Heck, he can even type a message and just not send it.  He can hit the auto-save feature and visit it in the morning to see if he still feels the same way about the subject before sending it.  Men love this degree of control.
  • Men are lazy.  Instead of keeping up with the conversation, they will insert emoticons (smiley faces) or acronyms (like LOL) because they really have nothing to add to the conversation.  It makes both parties think they are participating when in reality, men just can’t keep up.  How are men gonna fake it on a video chat?  Hold up an LOL sign?

So, who would use this feature?  I guess daughters who need to call their moms.  That’s about it.  Even at that, that will last a few calls.  Women are usually very critical of other women, especially moms.  When mom nags you that you haven’t cleaned your room in a week or that you need a haircut, the worn-out daughters will put their video chat on permanent INVISIBLE status.

And for women?  Even though women DO like to talk versus using texting, women don’t generally care about the visual.  We’re not gonna turn on the video chat feature because frankly, we like to multi-task when we talk.  We can be ever so attentive listening to your story of how your new date stood you up, your boss took credit for your project, or how you have to take your cat to the vet WHILE we are ironing, folding laundry, or painting our toenails.  By your seeing what else we are doing while we are talking to you kills the importance of whatever YOU’RE talking about.  Ya?  No!  Women won’t use this feature either.

How is this feature gonna pay for itself?  Well, it will eventually be used by men IF it involves sex.  Men who are in so-called long distance *relationships* will use it for phone sex.

The girls who participate in video chat for phone sex purposes will eventually also put their status on INVISIBLE.  Sooner or later, that ‘ew’ factor just kicks in.  It’s only a matter of time before she realizes that he’s down for video chatting because he’s too cheap to take her out on a date.  This gets old to most of us ‘attention whore’ type of girls.  We like to be shown off in public.  How are we gonna runway our new shoes or clutch our new bags when there is no one to see them?  The creep on the line certainly isn’t interested.

So…where does this all take us?

They spent all this money WITHOUT THE SUFFICIENT MARKET RESEARCH to confirm IF the public would use such a tool.

I predict in a year, by inventing 4G for the purpose of bringing video chatting to the public, will result in our (the entire cell phone user base) having to pay $10 more per month in data fees. 

Dummies.  Take your 3D and video chat-featured phones and put them where the sun don’t shine.  We don’t want them.  How ‘bout you give us features we actually will use to make our lives better?  I guess I had better go re-program my auto-pay to send in $70 per month for data versus $60 come next September.  Grrr!